1 Question for People Who Won’t Wave the Rainbow Flag

Originally posted on knitting soul:

rainbow flag

A few days ago, Kevin DeYoung asked 40 Question For Christians Now Waving Rainbow Flags. Because I’ve been waving my rainbow flag for the past 5 years, I thought about responding, but the truth is, others have done a fantastic job of that already.

Here’s the thing. I’m out of patience for this. DeYoung asks his 40 questions, but they all boil down to the same thing. Prove that you’re right. Prove that God is on your side. Prove that you deserve what I already have.

I’m tired of it. I’m tired of the assumption that my gay friends are the ones who need to be answering questions. I’m tired of the assumption that they need to justify their faith to those who fancy themselves the gatekeepers of Christianity. I’m tired of the woe are we attitude from those who have been a part of movements to bar LGBTQ people…

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Originally posted on introvertchurchplanter:

It seems to me that Sabbath was made with us introverts in mind. A sunset to sunset of rest.

As a church planter my weeks are filled with meetings, introductions, hosting, smiling, talking, teaching, networking, coffee, gatherings, events…

I find myself crawling towards Sabbath.

My workweek mindset:

  • Sunday is tóhu vavóhu (what can I say we’re a church plant).
  • Monday damnable Monday.
  • Tuesday – wait, it’s only Tuesday?
  • Wednesday I begin seeing the light (or sunset) at the end of the tunnel
  • Thursday – wait, it’s only Thursday?
  • Friday is watching the clock tick towards the tranquility of Sabbath.
  • Sabbath, Sabbath, Sabbath
  • Rinse and Repeat!

As much as I love my Sabbath practices, I always need to be very careful that I remember the purpose of this Sacred Time.

To the biblical mind…labor is the means toward an end, and the Sab­bath as a day of rest, as a day of abstaining from toil…

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Right now as I type, the inter-webs is still blowing up along the hashtag #ThingsJesusNeverSaid – This is a very clever thing. A place for progressive Christians, non-Christians, and conservative Christians to sling the proverbial spit and mud at their blind counterparts in 140 characters or less.

I have to admit many of the posts made me chuckle. Many made me angry. Many more made me quite sad. Again we’ve found a way to rob our ‘one anothers’ from civil discourse and meaningful dialogue. We continue to pursue biting memes and short-hand kvetching as opposed to sincere conversation.

We can stand around pointing fingers all day long but on this day (It is ‘Good Friday’ as I write) no fingers were being pointed by Jesus. In fact on this day Jesus said very few things…one of the more profound things that the New Testament declares he said is, “Forgive them for they know not what they do.”

It breaks my heart that the church that is to be known for its ‘love of one another’ is instead trotting around and showing its disdain for one another. This is always the danger of taking a religion that had a communal concept of life and salvation and allowing it to transition into a faith that is all about personal salvation and personal gain/growth. If we could only return to the time when the church was in it together…not to win rhetorical dance-offs but rather a time when the heart of the faithful was about lifting the oppressed, serving the marginalized, caring for the downtrodden.

Jesus, it is said, died for the entire world…not for those we like or agree with. Jesus exposes power structures that rob others of their fullness of life. Jesus served the oppressed in order that their hope might be restored.

The irony of #ThingsJesusNeverSaid is that most folks sincerely believe that Jesus is in full agreement with their quips. I find it hard to imagine that Jesus, who fought for the dignity of ALL people, would side specifically with any of us in our foray into Twitter fame.

Put down your hashtags…put aside your polemics…lift up your neighbor whether they are gay or straight, conservative or liberal, male or female, fundamentalist or progressive, religious or not, optimistic or pessimistic, friend or enemy.

Because the one thing we are assured of in the Gospels is that Jesus did say to “love our enemies” and on this particular Holiday we are even called to remember that Jesus not only loved them he also stood before G_d asking on their behalf for their forgiveness. May we learn something from this day of remembrance.

Peace to you and yours. Remember: Agreement should never be a prerequisite for loving others.

My Feet, My Prayer

Originally posted on pa5t0rd:

For much of my life, growing up in the church, prayer had a very specific context. Prayer was: head bowed, hands folded, eyes closed and if I were feeling especially introspective I would drop to my knees…maybe even lay on my face. I found myself to be quite the scatter brained person of prayer. I struggle to stay focused…remain on task…and often I struggled to even just remain awake.

I was/am a failure at being a prayer warrior (as my church was fond of calling it). War, apparently, was quite boring and I found myself becoming numb (physically and emotionally) as I pled with G_d to end my plight of needing to continue this incessant vigil. Yet, here I was in a place that deeply valued prayer so much so that those who were the most capable amongst us were held in high regard as our warriors! I am still…

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How I Pray With My Feet

Don Schiewer Jr:

Wonderful Post! May we all pray with our feet!

Originally posted on With My Whole Life:

ImageI love cities because they lend themselves to walking.  And getting the morning basics like eggs and milk never requires a car ride, but a simple walk across the street in flip flops.  I was reminded of that some time ago when I was at Grand Rapids looking for a good cup of coffee.  The closest cup was at a mall located across the expressway, and there seemed to be no way to get there by foot.  So my wife and I played a risky game, bobbing and weaving across a highway to satisfy a serious coffee “jones”.

Walking can be a meditative practice, too.  It helps me to pray in “real time”.  And in the city (or even during a good hike north of the city) it can also become a multi sensory prayer experience.

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May Your New Year be but a Moment.



The idea of a smile and kind words often strikes me. Too frequently I find myself hurrying through life with not much time fore even the smallest pause.

But when I do → the present moment has time to fill up. The fullness of any given moment moves it from the secular into the sacred.

As we string these sacred moments together → one moment placed carefully on the continuum of life after another — our lives become enriched, our neighbors benefit, and our communities thrive!

These moments are a blessing…and like Abraham we should view these blessings as our opportunity to bless others.

This thinking reminds me, also, of Moses when he notices the burning bush…he allowed room for that moment to be filled up → pausing within it to notice that, though on fire, the bush was not being consumed. It is in the midst of that single moment that the ordinary shifted to the extraordinary…where the secular became the sacred! Shoes are removed, sand presses upon the soles → G_d is present! Blessed be He!

We must begin to move towards pausing.

We live in a culture that calls for us to ‘milk’ every moment trading time as a commodity. Never fully present rather leaving a wake of dismembered and abused time — swept too quickly into the past while we already begin to hunt and feast on the moments that have yet to come.

So, how do we move from a consumer of time to a curator of it, a partner with it?

A phrase I’ve become fond of is ‘breathing in the moment’ – we need to be more within time – when we slow down we allow ourselves the opportunity to take in more information. There is an important piece of breathing and moments that I feel is also vital – Exhaling! 

Exhaling is our opportunity to put back into the moment what we’ve taken out of it. What if we were to put back into every moment an equal amount to that which we removed…or better yet…more.

A deliberate intention of leaving each moment better off than when we arrived. How do we do such things?

Instead of a ‘wake’ of moments we begin to awaken moments.

I pray that this year is a year where we each awaken more moments with one another.

Happy New Year!

The Complexity of Faith and Poverty

**This article of mine was originally published in the Toledo Streets Newspaper**

As our country continues to try to climb out of this difficult recession we are left with a lot of questions about poverty. In the past several decades it was much simpler to put a face on poverty because the lines were clear…there was an ‘us’ and ‘them’ that was definable (or we at least allowed ourselves to believe this to be true). The longer our current economic downturn trudges on the more fragile we realize those once hard barriers are. The folks standing in line for food, clothing, and unemployment are our neighbors – those with an attached garage and privacy fence surrounding their previously well manicured yard. Those folks are us.

One of the most difficult things for us in our current socio-economic climate is dealing with some of the false beliefs we once held so tightly. There are many that at one time or another had rung true to us. Things such as: Poverty is a result of laziness, Pull yourself up by your bootstraps, You made your bed now lie in it – these previously proud statements were once paraded around by those of us in privilege who never had to deal with facing foreclosure, food stamps, or joblessness.

The examples I gave above were more a reflection on cultural statements, but there are many from within the church that have touted the same or similar beliefs. Some of them carried an identical message but were dressed in the lily whites of Jesus-esque language: “G_d helps those who help themselves” comes to mind (please note – this is not in the bible). Maybe you’ve even heard folks dismiss the issue all together by quoting Jesus, “The poor will always be with you.” Then some blame the impoverished person’s faith or righteousness for their plight…reminding them that if they just ‘trust’ in G_d then He will provide.

Is it really that simple? Is this really how the LORD desires us to deal with poverty in our midst?

When wrestling with what our faith has to say about poverty we must recognize that it is complex. Most of us have been taught that if the answer is too easy then it probably isn’t the right answer. I believe that in our need/desire to communicate the faith as simply as possible we’ve oftentimes have made the answers too easy – and therefore not the right answer.

So how do we address poverty from a place of faith? Well, let’s first turn to the Text that should inform our beliefs.

I want to begin with the verse mentioned above – Jesus declaring that the poor will always be amongst us. Many Christians miss that Jesus is actually quoting a passage from the book of Deuteronomy (15). This passage actually begins by G_d promising Israel that if she does all that He commands that poverty will not exist amongst them. The next piece of the Text is where it starts to become more complex – G_d expects Israel to respond to those who become poor with ‘open hands’ and generously taking care of their needs. “Why?” we might ask, well because in His breath just prior He said that an obedient nation would not have poor. We are left to wrestle with, “How then did this fellow become impoverished?” – Did G_d fail to uphold His end of the deal? Let me just say (in the spirit of St. Paul) “Heavens NO!” – the failure was not YHWH’s but rather it is ours. Therefore, we must not close our hearts to those in need because their situation stems from our own (corporate) failures to uphold the commands of G_d. The end of this section in the Text is a sad moment when the LORD declares of Israel, “The poor will always be with you.” Ugh – this is gut wrenching. Our LORD has established a system amongst His faithful that was designed in part to eradicate poverty but because we prefer to live according to our own will and not His – well, poverty is still with us.

This passage is a real confrontation to our good Western society that is hyper focused on independence, individualism, and self-reliance. We, in many ways, have fallen for a trap of importing cultural norms onto biblical precepts. The faith of Messiah and his fellow Jews was one steeped in communal worship, communal forgiveness, and communal living. It is impossible to fulfill the Torah without living deeply invested in community – caring for the person next to you, the hungry, sick, and poor. This is in stark contrast to the way we have learned to express our faith today. We declare it to be a ‘personal’ faith, ‘personal’ Messiah and ‘personal’ relationship – these aren’t, in and of themselves, bad but they are far from the heart of the gospel and from the faith of our Messiah.

Let’s look at another passage: Matthew 25 speaks of the ‘time to come’ when the king will sit on his throne and separate the sheep from the goats. This scene is ominous as the goats are sent to destruction and the sheep are ushered into ‘green pastures’ – most Christians, if asked (and often when we aren’t) would respond to this question (How does one avoid destruction and instead enter ‘green pastures’?) with a much different example than Jesus uses.

Jesus tells a story where someone is hungry and has either been fed or ignored, someone is naked and has either been clothed or ignored, etc. His story does not include faith statements, creeds, dogma, or doctrine – instead His word picture centers on assisting the poor.

We can also pick up on this thinking when Jesus is asked, “What is the greatest commandment?” His response is a combination of Deuteronomy 6 (“Love the LORD your G_d with all your heart, soul, and strength…”) and Leviticus 19 (“Love your neighbor as yourself…”). In that Leviticus passage we have a list of things that lead up to this statement in verse 18 – this list is the ‘how’ of loving your neighbor. It talks about leaving the corners of your field. That section is one of my favorite sections of the bible. I always try to point out to people that G_d doesn’t say how much to leave, He just says to leave the corner…the extent of our generosity is solely up to us. In addition to the ‘how much’ is the ‘for who’ – the Text says it is for the poor and sojourner to come and take what they need.

I find this striking because nowhere in this section or in the Matthew 25 passage is there anything that actually ‘qualifies’ the person – do we think someone stood at the edge of their field and checked w2’s before allowing entrance? Did Jesus say, “I was hungry and after a thorough vetting process you deemed me worthy of receiving food”?

I think these things might hold part of the key to why faith and poverty is such a complex topic. We want to know or determine who is worthy to receive. Let that sink in…when we see a person on the corner with a sign, and we attempt to assess their worthiness for our spare change. Trying to predict how they’ll use the money, why they are there in the first place, what being a good steward means in this situation…these are the things we tend to process in those moments. We must remember our own worthiness – ‘for yet while you were still sinners’ comes to mind – before the LORD. We must remember His generosity. We are not the moral agents of others, it is not our place to determine another’s worthiness but it is our responsibility to ‘do all that I [the LORD] has commanded.’

May we be a people of faith who leaves the corners of our field, feeds the hungry, visits the sick – and more importantly be generous with ‘open hands’ when we meet another who is poor.

Toldot (Genesis 25.19-28.9)


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The children struggled together…

A new chapter in the history of our faith begins with this introduction of yet another set of brothers – Jacob and Esau. They are introduced to us in the midst of a wrestling match – yet in the womb of their mother, Rebekah.

Why has the author chosen for us to be introduced to these two brothers, in this way? Not by name or by promise but by their struggle with each other. Even their names are about the current moment, not their future hope.

The battle in the womb is the precursor of two lives enmeshed in fighting and discord. Even beyond that of two lives to two peoples – Edom and Israel. These brothers (as it seems with most brothers in the Text) find themselves at odds from day one (or in this case – earlier).

What do we find in this portion? What we do find is the beginnings of the echoes we will encounter in the Text in the coming weeks. Mistaken identity, eye problems and wrestling matches are but a few of the reverberations we will hear.

We also hear some echoes from previous portions: Wives as sisters, famines and Egypt, barrenness, siblings fighting, and hunters. Why were these important to the author? What story is God telling behind the story? What do these connections have to do with what God is doing within His creation?

In addition there are some strange happenings with Rebekah: God reveals His plans to Rebekah not Isaac, Rebekah, like Sarah,tries to make God’s promise come to fruition through her own doing, and Rebekah is ultimately the one who finds a bride(s) for Jacob. Why? 


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